Five Sure-Fire Steps to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back into Your Arms
So, you finally did it: You lost the girl that has been treating you right. Its ok, we've all been there. Like playing football or climbing trees screwing up a good thing is a ritual every man must go through. That doesn't mean that you have to accept it, however. No, with the tips contained herein you'll drop the ex and get the girl back.
You need to first figure out what you did (or didn't do) to cause her to leave in the first place. This step shouldn't be rocket science. She more than likely gave you the answer in a very clear, very loud manner as you dodged the flying CDs that she forcefully returned to you.
Now you will need to commit to making the necessary changes. Did she say that she can no longer date a pig? Some clutter is to be expected in a man's apartment, but women don't want to feel they need a TB test after visiting you. Accused you of being insensitive? Start reading up on what women want from you, and adapt that into daily life. Sure your friends might mock you, but you'll have the last laugh when she's cradled against you in bed.
Give her time to calm down. Right now, she is PISSED. You should avoid fuelling the fires of her ire for the next couple of weeks. Let her bitch to her girlfriends and vent that vile before you even consider calling her. During this time, your only focus should be on enacting the changes you need to win her back.
Ok, so she's had time to release her anger and you have made the necessary adjustments to yourself. Now, it's time to re-connect with her. You know where she likes to go, so go there. But make sure it was a place that you also enjoy or need to go to on a regular basis. Going five miles out of your way to shop at her local market will just come across creepy. When you do run into her, just say hi and apologize for the way things ended. Tell her you'd love to get a coffee together somewhere but that you've got to run, would it be ok to call her sometime? Then leave.
Once you're talking again, just hang out casually and give her a chance to see how you've changed. You don't want to run the risk of losing her completely so let your time together be fun and non-committal. Remember that "psycho" ex you had a few years back, who called at all hours and professed her undying love? If it didn't work on you, why do you think it would work FOR you?